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Group vs Groom Fancy Dress: How to Do It Right

The best fancy dress concentrates the embarrassment on the groom while keeping the group presentable. Here's how to split it.

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Dress the groom, coordinate the group

Put the groom in something gloriously daft — a mankini under a coat, a mascot suit, a full costume — while the group wears something subtler and coordinated: matching shirts, a colour, simple accessories. Best of both worlds.

Keep the group door-safe

A subtly coordinated group gets into venues; a horde in full matching costume gets knocked back. Concentrating the obvious stuff on the groom keeps the group presentable for the night.

Photos love contrast

The group-plus-standout look photographs brilliantly — the coordinated crew and the one ridiculous groom in the middle. It's the shot that ends up framed at the wedding.

Frequently asked

Should the groom wear different fancy dress?

Yes — a distinct, sillier costume for the groom over a subtler coordinated group look concentrates the attention on him and keeps the group presentable.

How do I stop fancy dress getting us refused?

Keep the group's outfits subtle and door-friendly, put the obvious costume on the groom, and change or tone down for the night venues.

Where can I get a groom-plus-group idea?

The free fancy dress generator gives you a group theme and a matching groom standout in one tap.

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